ideas for asking your girls "will you be my bridesmaid"

Whether you knew who your bridesmaids would be the second you got engaged or you have spent an agonising few weeks deciding who to ask – you want that moment you officially ask that all important question to be extra special. To help make that moment even more memorable, we have picked out some of the best ‘Will you be my bridesmaid?’ card and gift ideas.

ideas for asking will you be my bridesdmaid

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Will you be my bridesmaid scratch cards are a fun way to make a game out of popping that all important question. Many of these cards don’t look like your ordinary scratch card and are adorned with beautiful metallic panels or hearts that you can scratch off to reveal that all important message.

Why not hold a bridesmaid party and invite all your best girls – then as they help you with blowing up some balloons, you can hand them a beautiful ‘Will you be my bridesmaid?’ balloon, you will have such a fun party and you could also get some amazing photos of your bridesmaids and their balloons.

If you and your besties love to glass of wine then what would be more perfect that creating your own bespoke wine bottle labels that you can wrap around your favourite tipple. Then you can ask that all important question and enjoy a celebratory drink!

Perhaps you and your BFF are more into a cup of tea and a biscuit – no problem! You can order your very own bespoke mugs that are personalised with your bridesmaid’s name and that extra special question.

Keep things simple with a ‘Will you be my bridesmaid?’ card – you can write your own personal message to each of your girls to make the cards feel extra special.

For the perfect gift to accompany your card, Glitzy Secrets have a gorgeous selection of bridesmaid jewellery. Why not gift your maids with earrings, a bracelet or a necklace they can wear on the big day?

If you want to make your bridesmaid work for the honour of being in your bridal party then set her the challenge of completing a puzzle that spells out that special question.

Is your bridesmaid always there for you in an emergency? Then why not return the favour and pop the question by presenting her the perfect bridesmaid survival kit containing all the things they could need on your big day.

If your BFF is a big make up fan then a personalised make up bag could be the perfect gift for them – you could even fill in with things that could come in useful on the big day such as waterproof mascara and nail polish to match your colour scheme.

For another perfect personalised gift, consider getting your best girls’ initials as a pretty gift they can hang in your home and team with the perfect ‘Will you be my bridesmaid’ card.

Candles are another pretty keepsake that can be personalised with your bridesmaid’s name and your own special message and it’s something they can then keep in their home as a reminder in the run up to your big day.

Written by Caroline Hendry


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